Having A Partner Is Not Bad
You might don't know the sum of moles on your body. But suddenly someone can stand in front of you and tell the details about each and every mole of your body, she will say all disgusting, silly, rubbish, dirty and make it as much spicy as she can. And she can do it and know those just because she is your ex's friend; not even a close or best friend just a simple friend. You can not run far from her because if you do that, she will shout and say all, then all people around you will notice you. And you can not stand in front of her and hear because hearing her words will extremely make you feel that you just need to die just at that second.
You can not share something with anyone. Because becoming viral of those words can harm you at a very extreme level. Maybe at the age of 15/16 having some words like that much critical is a rare case. But it never mean that you can't have some words like that. Its like, becoming a mother of a 15 years old girl is a rare case. But it can happen. In past, there is a history of a 13years old girl who became mother and she was healthy. She hadn't faced any problem of so early pregnancy. But it never mean that any 13years old girl can smoothly become mother, They can't. Like that at a very young age you can have some words which are highly restricted. And because human is a social being you need to share, you can't stay alone. That's why some people feels need of a fixed and trusted companion at a early age. Basically they need it. It's not about their fantasy or sexuality, it's about their life story is different.
If your life story is different then you must have to face so much troubles. No one is going appreciate with your lifely decisions. And it's simple because your story is different and they are unknown about it so they won't get your position and logic. You have to decide yours by own. Your decision might be wrong or right but you have to decide. You know your situation. If you revile anything to anyone who is not your so so trusted and that thing is restricted then you are shortly going to be disrespected, laugh at, shied for that. If you can't trust me then try this; think you life story is a novel. Share a page of the novel with a soft secret with anyone. You are go hear about it within up coming six months from anyone who you never expected to know it! But there will come situations where you need advises to take a decision. Since your story is rare most of the people around us can not advise you a better idea. You may meet different people with whom different chapters of your life will match, many people with whom 1,2,3,4 chapters or more than that are similar even same but maximum are not. I will suggest you to take advises from people with whom your that chapter matches, the chapter you need suggestion about. If you don't find a exprienced people on the chapter then in general take advises from people, minimum aged over 40. Now if your problems are restricted and you are being under pressure and depressed with it then your friends are going to leave you. Yes, it will happen and you have to accept it. As I'm telling from the starting your story is a rare one so you have to face rare things and you maybe can not have a life like others always. I know you won't feel easy to say again and again all about your problems to someone, you won't feel safe and free enough also to speak out. Then you will try to have a partner. Good choice but bad decision. Because in this world actors are available everywhere. So if you go forward with this plan you may face a fraud! And if you won't face a fraud then also it's highly possible that you will find a partner but he/she won't get your problems as a result you will be again alone to deal with your shits. Even situation can stand oposit than you thought, like he/she will leave you, complaining that you are so pissed off, he/she is not enjoying with you, you are not adjusting, you are boring etc. After facing such problems you may decide to quit. You might feel that is the best decision but trust me that's not. Yes, maybe at a stage your straggle is more than you can tolerate but you need to try. Then also if you quit, I don't have words. I will congratulate you for each and every second you survived. But you should live. People like you are living they are also struggling. You can also do it. Just first of all accept it that your story is rare so your path is different, try to fight by own untill you feel so difficult to breath, avoid those people who makes you depressed, avoid them who makes you feel pressure, never expect so much from anyone, don't trust blindly, learn to ignore things and ignore that whatever makes you uneasy, don't show your weak points to anyone, try to have a control on emotions. If you have a heart break story then please don't try to set up the heart again by trusting someone again. Yes, take a partner if you need but don't try to become so emotionally touched with him/her. Most of the victims of heart break tries to go forward with someone else. Basically they try to fill the gap of their heart with someone new. It's a very effective treatment indeed but the problem is if you again be cheated then your heart might not even stay as good as that can run heart bits! Be clear on a point, your life is your so you have to think and do the better for you. Most of the people won't get you and you have to ignore them and go forward on your smooth way. But you have to think about what people say also because your story is different it never mean that all of their words are valueless. So you have to think deeply. Rest of all, leave it to the almighty Allah.
You can not share something with anyone. Because becoming viral of those words can harm you at a very extreme level. Maybe at the age of 15/16 having some words like that much critical is a rare case. But it never mean that you can't have some words like that. Its like, becoming a mother of a 15 years old girl is a rare case. But it can happen. In past, there is a history of a 13years old girl who became mother and she was healthy. She hadn't faced any problem of so early pregnancy. But it never mean that any 13years old girl can smoothly become mother, They can't. Like that at a very young age you can have some words which are highly restricted. And because human is a social being you need to share, you can't stay alone. That's why some people feels need of a fixed and trusted companion at a early age. Basically they need it. It's not about their fantasy or sexuality, it's about their life story is different.
If your life story is different then you must have to face so much troubles. No one is going appreciate with your lifely decisions. And it's simple because your story is different and they are unknown about it so they won't get your position and logic. You have to decide yours by own. Your decision might be wrong or right but you have to decide. You know your situation. If you revile anything to anyone who is not your so so trusted and that thing is restricted then you are shortly going to be disrespected, laugh at, shied for that. If you can't trust me then try this; think you life story is a novel. Share a page of the novel with a soft secret with anyone. You are go hear about it within up coming six months from anyone who you never expected to know it! But there will come situations where you need advises to take a decision. Since your story is rare most of the people around us can not advise you a better idea. You may meet different people with whom different chapters of your life will match, many people with whom 1,2,3,4 chapters or more than that are similar even same but maximum are not. I will suggest you to take advises from people with whom your that chapter matches, the chapter you need suggestion about. If you don't find a exprienced people on the chapter then in general take advises from people, minimum aged over 40. Now if your problems are restricted and you are being under pressure and depressed with it then your friends are going to leave you. Yes, it will happen and you have to accept it. As I'm telling from the starting your story is a rare one so you have to face rare things and you maybe can not have a life like others always. I know you won't feel easy to say again and again all about your problems to someone, you won't feel safe and free enough also to speak out. Then you will try to have a partner. Good choice but bad decision. Because in this world actors are available everywhere. So if you go forward with this plan you may face a fraud! And if you won't face a fraud then also it's highly possible that you will find a partner but he/she won't get your problems as a result you will be again alone to deal with your shits. Even situation can stand oposit than you thought, like he/she will leave you, complaining that you are so pissed off, he/she is not enjoying with you, you are not adjusting, you are boring etc. After facing such problems you may decide to quit. You might feel that is the best decision but trust me that's not. Yes, maybe at a stage your straggle is more than you can tolerate but you need to try. Then also if you quit, I don't have words. I will congratulate you for each and every second you survived. But you should live. People like you are living they are also struggling. You can also do it. Just first of all accept it that your story is rare so your path is different, try to fight by own untill you feel so difficult to breath, avoid those people who makes you depressed, avoid them who makes you feel pressure, never expect so much from anyone, don't trust blindly, learn to ignore things and ignore that whatever makes you uneasy, don't show your weak points to anyone, try to have a control on emotions. If you have a heart break story then please don't try to set up the heart again by trusting someone again. Yes, take a partner if you need but don't try to become so emotionally touched with him/her. Most of the victims of heart break tries to go forward with someone else. Basically they try to fill the gap of their heart with someone new. It's a very effective treatment indeed but the problem is if you again be cheated then your heart might not even stay as good as that can run heart bits! Be clear on a point, your life is your so you have to think and do the better for you. Most of the people won't get you and you have to ignore them and go forward on your smooth way. But you have to think about what people say also because your story is different it never mean that all of their words are valueless. So you have to think deeply. Rest of all, leave it to the almighty Allah.
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